Hey guys,

New to the site and to MP in general. I'm a 27 yo female and I'm thinking about these erotic MP svs. Do you guys really go in for the expertise of a Massage therapist or for the company/looks/pleasure?

Other than randomly visiting these places (since I've been getting the drift of secrecy, busts, etc.), I'd like a suggestion or two of what "salon" that a 27 Caucasion female (5'6" 145lbs. Size 7) would fit right in? I notice many are Asian salons...

Many Thanks for any help!!

Generally spas in this market do not want to or may not even service ladies. Call 1st and check. If it is an EMP, they service men as their primary clients, so they do not want a lady who may not be understanding of the nature of the business to see or hear something that will get them in trouble.

I have not yet met an Asian spa provider who is into women, there certainly may be some, but I think they will be hard to find. I have asked on many occassions what do you do if a couple comes in and wants a massage. They tell me either they give them both a straight legit massage following all rules, or they tell them "too busy, come other time" and do not see them at all.

Most ladies who have tried to get a massage at the places I frequent were told "too busy come later".

You have to understand that the walls are thin and it is common place to see another dude going to or from the TS or other areas in just a towel. Clients probably would not be happy if a woman who did not work there was to see the same thing, or the lady may not be happy if I guy saw her in a towel or less. Thin walls means that you can hear what is going on in the next room. This would clearly offend any lady not understanding the place is offering EMP services.

Lady customers present a greater risk to EMPs/AMPs and unless they have told you they will service you the same as a man, you should expect nothing more then a legit massage, if they let you in.

Please do not take offense. I am not saying this is right or wrong. But they do not generally employ males for ladies and you can not assume that every woman is going to be into women.

Two questions: a) Do you guys go to and AMP for the massage or the company/looks/pleasure; and Would a woman customer fit right in?

Rock thoroughly addressed the second question. For the first question, there may be many different answers. For me? I want a GREAT massage, and I desire GREAT company/looks/pleasure. So, I want all the above. (Though, the "company/looks/pleasure" really needs to be treated as separate entities.)

I have no problems with ladies customers in the spa. I am not embarrassed by much.
Other people may feel differently. I know guys that hide their cars and walk as discreetly as possible to the spa door.

What ladies who want a HE from spas fail to understand is that most of the spa providers just are not into women. Always there are exceptions to this but you would be hard pressed to find one in this area.

Guys, you read it wrong. I'm not looking to get a massage at these joints. I'm asking if a caucasian female will fit in DOING these massages or would I be the only white girl. (It's a curiousity and knowing some people support their own.)

Ah. Not in this area. You will need to go to a spa such as TBC in Baltimore that is Non-Asian.
The Asian owned and run spas would not trust you to hire you. Anyone not Asian who inquires about employment at a spa is assumed to be LE.

There is the language issue, the fact they offer no benfits, do no employment paperwork, do not carry mandated Workmans comp etc etc etc, they simply would not let someone who knows their work place rights work in a place that fully intends to violate them.

You may find some places in other parts of the country that may staff Asian, Latina, AA, or Caucasian but I have not found on in this area.

CuriousLady, TheRock and Frogg didn't read it wrong but you could have used better wording on your original post but I see you made an adjustment to your original post on your 2nd post, which made it easier to interpret.

Frogg is correct too on his opinion as we like to see the the combination of all 3, if not, at least the "Best of both worlds"(looks and pleasure).

Now, I don't reside in Maryland or the east coast but where I reside here in Orange County, Ca.,there are a few caucasian EMP's. TheRock is correct on where Asian Spas will just use asian providers as Latina providers will work for Latin EMP's. There are a few that will be mixed(Latin & Asian), at least that's what I notice in Ca but the caucasian providers will have their own outfit but the price is more expensive.

I would suggest to put up a ad in the Beauty or Therapeutic section, make it discreet and build up on repeat clients and referrals. Also for the pricing, try to make it convenient for you and the customer, at least for now during these tough economic times.

Re-reading this string ...thanks, Apache, I couldn't agree with you more. And, with so many AMPs now closed in this area, there may be an opportunity to gain some market share.

Thanks. You make decision making NOT to getting into this a lot easier! .

There are plenty of independents who work out of their home or some other location ...and apparently do quite well.

You have 3 choices that I know of. (1)Go find a EMP that you can work at. (2)Go Independent. (3)Try the streets, no offense .

I agree, for you, that's definitely the best option; just advertise, be careful who you see and what you say/do until you are comfortable with the customer - there are plenty of guys who'll go for just a massage on the initial session and let you get comfortable with them. If you do go indy, let us know your ad - I might visit you for the massage!