How many of you hobbyists are married or in a relationship that receive a HJ or even FS? Do you feel like you've cheated? Well I was told "Eating aint Cheating and Sucking aint Fucking" What are your thoughts?

This is subjective.

Cheating on a spouse in my mind is loving someone else. Men are not built to be monogamous despite what you may hear. We have a strong sex drive and would perfer multiple partners.

So IMHO no. But it does not matter what I think or you think, or any other guy thinks is cheating. What matters is what your wife or significant other thinks cheating is. Her definition usually wins that arguement everytime.

From my experience: From a female point of perspective: Yes. Any contact that involves any part of your anatomy that is normally covered is cheating. From my male point of view concerning a female cheating: if another man is kissing you, touching, eating, feeling your pussy or boobs, then she is cheating.

Men just have a really hard time staying with only one partner. I primarily blame the female partner for this. They get complacent and forget that their man needs affection and sex on a regular basis(no ma'am, sex once a year is not regular!). When that happens, the man naturally looks elsewhere for it. I do not understand why the female is so surprised and mad when she finds out her neglected man is seeing other women. That's what I like about AMPs, I get the touching and attention not offered any longer in the home, in a private setting that can be kept under wraps.

Some people have open relationships to try to solve this problem....they rarely last very long.

Question:so would you consider this cheating: your girl is a cam girl, being naked on the net, doing herself with dildos, etc. on cam for tips, privates, etc. ??? Brings in good money, yet she has no physical contact with another male. Cheating? Yes or No...???